Not Meant to be Together

Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together.

Pansamantalang kaligayahan, pansamantalang pagsasama pero sa huli may isang mang-iiwan. Yung akala mo na makakasama mo forever eh iiwan ka din pala. Yung tipong hindi mo inimagine na hindi kayo magkakahiwalay pero nangyari. Siguro ganon lang talaga ang buhay may mga taong dadaan sa buhay mo, papasayahin ka, gagawin kang special sa buhay niya, ipaparamdam sayo na ikaw lang talaga pero yung ginagawa niya sa iyo hindi rin para pangmatagalan. Ma-iinlove ka sa kaniya, ma-iinlove din siya sa iyo pero hindi talaga kayo para sa isa’t isa, hindi pala talaga kayo yung itinadhana na magkasama.

Mga Klase ng Sweldo

Source: Blog Ng Ina Mo

Sibuyas Na Sweldo: Kapag hinati-hati mo na sa gastusin… mapapaluha ka.

Pampapayat na Sweldo: Habang tumatagal pakonti ng pa konti ang natitirang pang kain mo.

Magic Sweldo: Konti kumpas lang ng kamay at, VOILA!... wala na siya.

Mala-bagyong Sweldo: Di ka sigurado kung kailang ito darating at/o kung gaano ito tatagal.

Korning Pelikulang Sweldo: Tinatawanan mo na lang para di ka mabwisit!

Konserbatibong Sweldo: Nakakawala ng inspirasyon!

Baog na Sweldo: Kahit anong trabaho ang gawin mo wala pa ring kalalabasan ito.

Reglang Sweldo: Isang beses isang buwan lang dumating at tumatagal lang ng 3 araw.

You are special - Don't you ever forget it!

Source: The Real Proposal Magazine

A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, “Who would like this $20 bill?”

Hands started going up.

He said, “I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this.” He proceeded to crush into a ball the $20 dollar note.

He then asked, “Who still wants it?”
Still hands were up in the air.

“Well,” he replied, “What if I do this?” And he dropped it on the ground and started to crush it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty. “Now who still wants it?” Still, the hands went into the air.

“My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But, no matter what has happened, or what will happen, you will NEVER lose your value.

You are special - Don’t ever forget it! ♥

10 Ways To Identify If You Really Have Moved On

Source: W a G a S

Nakapag-Move On Ka Na Bang Talaga?

1. Ayaw mong makarinig ng mga songs na familiar sa iyo. In fact, you have stopped listening to FM radio stations kasi love songs make you cry.

2. Pumapayat ka. Wala ka pa ring ganang kumain. Ito usually ang nangyayari kung ang ipinalit sayo eh mas sexy at hindi katulad mong mataba.

3. Tumataba ka. Ito ang opposite ng Symptom #2. You tend to binge-eat to forget your troubled heart. Aside from the three main meals of the day, grabe kang lumamon ng junk food in between meals by the hour, on the hour. Comfort food ito para sa iyo.

4. Nagmi-miss call ka sa ex mo. Naka-move on ka na kamo? Concerned ka lang kamo. Tigilan mo na yang kahunghangan mo ha. Sasampalin na kita.

5. Panay pa rin ang padala mo ng Text messages and/or email messages. Paano ka namang makaka-move niyan? You want to be friendly with your Ex? Niloko ka na’t lahat magpapaka-martir ka pa rin?

6. You constantly check your email or your FaceBook account. Nagbabakasakali ka pa rin na nagpadala ng message ang Ex mo? Sige ka baka yung message nya naniningil ng utang mo sa kanya.

7. Hindi ka na lumalabas ng bahay. Takot ka kasi na makita ang Ex mo together with his present. At takot ka din na baka sa landline siya tumawag sa iyo and you will miss the call. Ilusyunadang gago/gaga ka!

8. Hindi mo pa rin maubos-maisip kung bakit ka iniwan ng Ex mo. Hanggang ngayon hindi mo pa rin matanggap na wala na kayo. Para sa iyo wala kang pagkukulang. Para sa iyo unfair ang Ex mo.

9. May mga oras na depres-depresan ka. Ayaw mo pag nagtatakipsilim na. Ayaw mo ng dilim. Ayaw mo ng umuulan. Takot kang mapag-isa. Bigla ka na lang umiiyak. Para kang baliw. Naku, kulang ka lang ng dasal!

10. Gusto mong mag-hire ng detective to check on your Ex. In fact, gusto mo nga na ikaw na mismo ang mag-eespiya sa Ex mo at sa bago niyang partner. Nagpa-praktis ka tirelessly kung anong sasabihin mo just in case you bump to your Ex. With matching sa harap pa ng mirror yang praktis mo ha. Pati pagtulo ng luha, praktisado!

Isa lang masasabi ko. Huwag mo nang kererin ang confrontation mo with your Ex and ang bago niyang lover. It will just be ugly kasi hindi ka pa nga nagmo-move on. Let time heal the wounds. Accept the fact na wala na talaga kayo. And the fastest way to do this is not to do the above symptoms. Hindi siya worth ng love mo. Ipagdasal mo na lang ang Ex mo. In the meantime, chill ka lang. Tao ka lang at nasasaktan din. Acknowledge the pain and learn to accept your fate. In the end, tatawanan mo lang ang episode na ito sa buhay mo. And, don’t stop loving — darating din ang swerte mo.

Something for Reflection

1. If you can't see the bright side, polish the dull side.
2. Kind words make good echoes.
3. Life is short, pray long.
4. The best things in life aren't things.
5. No God, no peace. Know God, know peace.
6. Life is a measure to be filled, not a cup to be drained.
7. When you're green with envy, you're ripe for trouble.
8. The tongue weighs practically nothing, but few can hold it.
9. We stand tallest when we stoop to help others.
10. We receive or achieve only when we believe.

How to Enjoy Being Single

Source: WaGaS

If you're fixated on being part of a couple, here are some reasons to savor your SINGLENESS.

— IGNORE THE NAYSAYERS

In a couple-driven consumer marketing society, you're bound to come across people who wonder why you're single, as if the ultimate goal in life is to pair up with another human being and cling to that ideal as if your life depends on it. They might even imply that something is "wrong" with you if you're single. Brace yourself for that kind of ignorance. Remember that you don't have to defend your right for being single, just like it's rude to attack the validity of someone's relationship. Just say "I prefer being single" and change the subject or mention that statistics show that 1/2 of all people are single.

— FOCUS ON FRIENDSHIP

Being single doesn't have to mean being lonely. When you're single, you have more time to do a variety of things, all of which are opportunities to forge new friendships. Even if you're an introvert, this can be an excellent time to nurture your extroverted side. But social butterflies can grapple with loneliness too. Make it a priority in your life to create meaningful friendships and enrich your existing ones.

¤ Learn How to Talk to Strangers.

¤ Practice communication skills that improve and deepen friendships:

¤ Be Optimistic. Whether you're in a relationship or not, you want to be happy. Research shows that the number one ingredient for happiness, by far, is optimism.

— ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM

Everybody has radical little fantasies and the chances of pairing up with someone who shares such a fantasy with equal fervor is not something to hold your breath for. So what are you waiting for? Find some people who have the same idea, or just go for it alone, and you'll meet like-minded people along the way.

— APPRECIATE THE ABSENCE OF COMPROMISE

Classic relationship advice dictates that compromise, sacrifice are essential to a healthy relationship. Perhaps if you've been in a relationship before, you realize how much stuff you had to give up in order to make that relationship work. Or maybe you forgot about that stuff, because you're focused on the things you miss. Well, this is a good time to shift that focus. If you're a slob, isn't it great to be able to leave your stuff laying around, without anybody minding? If you're a neat freak, isn't it wonderful to be able to organize everything, and find it the way you left it? Isn't it nice to be able to cook and eat and enjoy foods that a partner might be averse to? Isn't it cool to be able to go out spontaneously, without wondering whether your partner can or should be invited? A relationship can add many good things to your life, but it also adds some rigidity, so take the time to appreciate your current flexibility.

— CHERISH THE EXCITEMENT

Relationships tend to come along with planning -- for example, you can't just accept a job across the country without touching base with your significant other. And generally, if you're in it for the long haul, you'll likely talk about what you'll be doing years from now. But when you're single, the future is completely open. Right now you're single, but tomorrow you might meet your soul-mate. Who knows? Fantasize. Be spontaneous. Be bold.

— BEING A MARRIED IS A LIFESTYLE CHOICE AND NOT A REQUIREMENT

Therefore, being single is a "lifestyle choice" and not a "default option." It is possible to CHOOSE to be single. There are advantages to being married just as there are disadvantages to being married, such as loss of personal freedom, having to compromise, etc. Conversely, there are advantages to being single, as well as disadvantages. Whether one is married or single is nothing more than a lifestyle choice.

TIPS

¤ Say yes to every opportunity to learn, grow and meet new people.

¤ Be grateful for what you have. Many people in the world don't have what you have.

¤ Decide for yourself if there are aspects of your life or your personality that you would like to change and do it. You are your best evaluator. You don't need to listen to those people who tell you that you are single because you are too "picky", too fat, or too old to meet someone else.

¤ Ignore the toxic people in your life. It is easy to recognize them. Their negative words of fear and discouragement sap your energy.

Invest in yourself. Save some money and get a professional massage. Get a manicure and pedicure... anything that nurtures your body and lifts your spirit.

¤ Look in your local newspaper for opportunities to join a service club or volunteer with an organization. Look in your church newsletter for church related activities if that makes you happy. Check the continuing education program at your local community college to see if there is a class that you would like to attend.

¤ Be sociable, go out and have fun and meet new people, just because there is no one in your life yet doesn't mean there never will be. Take your time and wait for the right person.

Astig ni Lolo =)

Apo: Lolo, sino po ba ang dapat mas nagmamahal? Babae o Lalaki?

Lolo: Simple lang yan apo, ikaw tatanungin ko, para makalipad ang ibon, anong pakpak ang dapat niyang gamitin? SYEMPRE PAREHO.

Source: Hirap-Aminin

Isang Payo

Kapag nagmahal ka, MAHAL lang, huwag mahal na mahal.
Para kapag nasaktan ka, MASAKIT lang, hindi masakit na masakit.

There is always some

TRUTH behind: "Just Kidding"
KNOWLEDGE behind: "I don't know"
EMOTION behind: "I don't care"
PAIN behind: "I'm okay"

Destiny and Choice

It is not DESTINY that determines LOVE, it is CHOICE. Relationship lasts long not because they’re destined to last long. Relationships last long because two people made a choice, to keep it, to fight for it and to work for it. Other relationships fail not because they’re destined to fail. They failed because one of the two, or both, made the choice - to set each of the other FREE… :)

When Someone's Worth It:

– you are willing to stop flirting with other people to prove it to them.

– you put your status as interested/not looking, even when you’re still single.

– you are willing to stay up even if they want to be on the phone all night.

– you instantly miss them as soon as you guys get off the phone.

– you start to think about the future with them and you just can’t help but smile.

When someone's worth it, don’t let them get away :)

Ang Mga Babae Kasi Ganito

Mga kaugalian ng mga babae:

1.) AYAW ng binababaan ng phone bigla. Mabilis silang mainis sa ganun.

2.) AYAW ng nire-replyan ng “?”.

3.) Minsan, kapag sinabi niya na gawin mo na lang ginagawa mo, meaning nun ihinto mo ginagawa mo at kausapin mo siya.

4.) AYAW ng inaasar siya ng sobra kasi minsan nao-offend na siya.

5.) Kapag galit ka, ‘wag mo i-ooff ang phone mo dahil automatic ‘yan, tatawag siya dahil nag-aalala siya.

6.) Kapag galit siya, suyuin mo siya. Babaan mo ang pride mo dahil malamang, World War III ‘yan kapag hinayaan mo na ganun lang mangyayari sa inyo.

7.) Kapag binabaan ka niya ng phone, gumawa ka ng paraan para makausap mo siya. ‘wag mo na paabutin ng umaga na walang ginagawa. Dahil iisipin nun na she’s not worth your time.

8.) Kapag nagtanong ka kung anong problema niya at sinabi niyang “wala”, ‘wag kang magsabi ng “okay”. Tanungin mo siya ulit. Ayaw nila ng madaling kausap. Gusto nila ng kinukulit sila.

9.) Kapag inaasar ka niya, meaning nun nagla-lambing siya. ‘wag kang mapipikon dahil mabilis silang magtampo.

10.) Kapag binigyan ka niya ng oras, ‘wag mo sayangin.

Ang babae, pakipot ‘yan. Gusto sinusuyo lagi. Gusto lang naman ng lambing niyan kaya nang-aaway o nagpapansin eh.

Minsan talaga, ang babae, mahirap i-pinta. Para silang abstract, magulo pero maganda pa rin. Kung lalake ka at hindi mo alam ‘yan, pasensyahan. Nature na ‘yan ng babae.

Mga Iba't-Ibang Klase ng Panliligaw!

1. Mr. Gwapings

– mayaman, gwapo, kilala..mataas ang confidence niya na hindi sya mababasted, kaya kapag nabasted... maapektuhan ng husto ang kanyang EGO. at take note, malas mo kung may sour grape attitude pa yan. Pwede nyang sabihing “Sus kala mo kung sinong maganda e pinagtyatyagaan ko lang naman siya!”

2. Mr. Quickie

– ang uri ng manliligaw na kada magkikita kayo e wala nang alam na sabihin kundi “kailan mo ba ako sasagutin?” o kaya “I love you na, ako ba hindi mo pa love?” kahit na isang linggo pa lang naman syang pumoporma. Kung baga dinadaan nya sa pangungulit para mabilis ang pagsagot mo.

3. Mr. Everything

– linya nya ang “Sagutin mo lang ako, ibibigay ko sa iyo lahat, lahat ng magustuhan mo. kahit ang pa buwan o kaya mundo.” !@#$ ka na kapag nagpauto ka. Dahil pag sinagot mo na yan, makakalimutan na niya ang linyang yan.

4. Mr. Stalker

– eto yung klase ng manliligaw na kapag nagkahiwalay kayo e sisimulan ka sa tanong na “kumain ka na ba?” pagkasagot mo susundan pa nya ulit ng tanong “nasan ka ngayon?” “sinong kasama mo?” “anong ginagawa mo?” at kung anu-ano pa. Basta tungkol sa daily activities mo kailangan malaman niya.

5. Mr. Salesman

– dadaanin ka sa matatamis na salita. parang si Mr. Everything din kaya lang siya mas matindi mang-uto. Yun bang tipong... ”ang ganda ganda talaga ng mga mata mo...” o kaya “ang kinis-kinis mo” o kaya “ang lambot ng mga kamay mo” at iba pang pang-uuto mapasagot ka lang.

6. Mr. Good Dog

– eto ang nakakatuwang manliligaw. Kasi payag siyang magpaalipin. Taga-bitbit ng bag mo o kahit ng mga kaibigan mo. Kahit magmukha siyang buntot sa tuwing may gala kayo ng mga barkada mo. Nagpapakitang-gilas kung baga. Pero pag sinagot mo na, for sure gaganti yan.

7. Mr. Anonymous

– motto nya ang “action speaks louder than words”. Wala kang kaalam-alam, nanliligaw na pala. Kaya pala ang bait-bait sa iyo. Eh akala mo mabait lang talaga.

8. Mr. Take it or leave it

– kapag binasted mo ang ganitong type ng manliligaw, asahan mo bukas may nililigawan na sya ulit. At heto pa, hinding hindi ka na niya papansinin. Period.

9. Mr. Romantiko

– jologs ang mga paraan nya sa panliligaw. Manghaharana, pakikisamahan mga barkada mo,liligawan parents mo at laging may dalang flowers and chocolates tuwing dadalaw. Pero madalas nakakapagpakilig siya ng nililigawan niya dahil sa kanyang “malinis na hangarin” awww!

10. Mr. Second chance

– siya ang pinakamasugid mong manliligaw. Kahit 100 times mong sabihing ayaw mo sa kanya at wala na siyang pag-asa ang sasabihin nya parin “Please give me a second chance”

Good Advices for Girls

Source: W a G a S

1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you

- Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship

- There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hang up on your past

- Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images

- How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules

- Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it’s worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him

- Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy

- It's a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s the guy who’s calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you

- There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can.

Also, do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what

- Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you

- No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it

- Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way

- Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship

- Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle

- If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love

- Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don’t be afraid to be single

- It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl

- Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits

- Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him

- Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one

- Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t hinder his gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.

A man won’t let go, if he really loves you.

Anong klaseng PAGKAIN ka?

Ang tao pwede ihalintulad sa pagkain. Kung hindi ka biniyayaan ng magagandang katangian na parang buffet (nandun na lahat), may mga kategorya pa din na siguradong pasok ka:

Pag HIPON ka, patapon ang mukha pero panalo ang katawan.

Kung LOLLIPOP ka, patapon ang katawan pero panalo ang mukha.

Kung patapon ang mukha at katawan mo, dapat BULALO ka - para panalo ang utak.

DURIAN ka naman kung may amoy ka, pero yummy naman.

Pero kung patapon na ang mukha, katawan at utak mo, maging BUKO ka na lang… Malinis ang kalooban.

Ngayong alam mo na… lumandi ayon sa kung anong pagkain ka.

Time :)

A kid asked,

"Lolo, what is the most important thing to give to someone?"

Lolo answered:

"Time, my apo."

"But why time and not LOVE?"

Love..

you can give that,

you can have that,

you can share that to anybody..

But with time..

you can't stop it

nor control it...

Because you can never bring back the time that has gone by...

Spend your time wisely and cherish it while you still have it.

Spend time with the one who means a lot to you...

Because you never know when your time is over.

Iba't-ibang Uri ng Babae

1. Pa-conyo: sila yung super vain na kala mo everyday is “foundation day.” Magaling mag-ingles, hindi umiinom ng house water sa fastfood at kung magbihis e kala mo parating may party. Sila rin yung aakitin ka, pero hindi bibigay….agad. Kailangan ng matinding humor kung talagang trip na trip mo sya iuwi.

2. Top-of-the-line sosyalera: Sila yung mga pinanganak na may gintong kutsara sa bibig. Lumaki sa aircon, straight English kung magsalita pero mahilig din silang magmarunong na magaling silang mag-Tagalog pero ang sama talaga pakinggan. Di nakakarelate sa mga kanto jokes, nagtatawanan na ang mga tao di pa din nila nagegets yung joke. Lumaki raw sila sa kalye playing street games. Pero alam nyo kung ano yun? Street hockey, soccer, baseball, etc. Pffft! Batang kalye nga. Mahirap abutin. Pero kung masusungkit, pwede rin!

3. Feeling or Illusionaries: mga mahilig mag-ilusyon na magaganda sila at may sinasabi sa buhay. Pinsan si ganito, kilala si ganyan, may lupain sa hibok-hibok para ma-impress lang ang kausap. Sila ata ang tinutukoy ng Parokya sa kanta nilang, “Silvertoes.” Madaling kausap at minsan, isang sabi lang, gora na yan… walang paliguy-ligoy pa. 10/11 ang drama, sa sampung sinabi labing-isa mali. Dagdag-bawas magkwento kaya ingat lang lalo na kung kiss and tell sila.

4. One-of-the-boys: Sila yung “ideal bestfriend.” Cowboy ba… Pwedeng biru-biruin, masarap kasama sa inuman, naiintindihan ang kalokohan at kaberdehan ng kalalakihan, madalas gumamit ng “tsong” at “pare” pag kausap mo. Pero sila rin yung hindi nagsasalita sa totoong nararamdaman nila. Ingat din ang mga boys sa mga ganitong girls- lalo na pag nahuhulog na pala sa inyo. Kawawa sila pag nasaktan. Hmmmm…

5. Girlfriend-material: Sila yung sa unang tingin pa lang ng boys, abot-langit na ang respeto. Sila yung mga simpleng babaeng matipid ngumiti, makikipag-kwentuhan pero hindi may mystique pa rin. Na-c-curious ang mga lalaki kung anong meron sa kanila that they keep on looking for more of that person. Minsan ang hirap kausap dahil pabago bago ng isip. Usually, sila ang naliligawan, sinusuyo hanggang mapa-oooohh… OO.

6. Man-hater: Sa una, mapagkakamalan mo silang tibo dahil sobra silang “boyish.” Defense mechanism nila yun dahil galit sila sa past experience nila with an EX. Takot na daw sila masaktan. Mahirap din silang getlakin dahil matatakot ka sa kasungitan nila. Ang hindi mo alam, kulit lang ang katapat. Bibigay din yan. Pero syempre, sa mga lalaki, dapat armed ka with sympathy, timing and humor. Kahit hindi ka masyadong pogi, basta meron ka nito- malaki na ang chance mo.

7. Pa-Girl: OA sa pagka girl, mayat-maya ang retouch inaabot ng 30mins sa CR kahit nasa mall kayo suklay ng suklay ng buhok, mayat maya nananalamin. Super freak-out sa kaarteyhan. Malakas mag react ng “yuck!! Or eewwww” kapag nakakarinig ng mga maseselang usapin. Di nila gets o maapreciate ang ibang mga bagay bagay. Di mo alam kung makitid lang talaga utak nila o talagang slow sila makagets.. Basta ang hirap nila ispelengin!!! Ang masama eh kung 30 yrs old na pagirl pa din… awts!

8. Super Friendly: By the word itself, friendly siya sa lahat. Napakabait, Napakadaling i-aproach napakalawak ng pang-unawa on things. Masarap hingan ng payo. Pero minsan namimisinterpret ng iba. Aakalain ng guy na may gusto sa kanya si super friendly. Lalo na sa pagmimisinterpret sa kanila ng girls dahil pinagchichismisan sya ng masama, siguro kinaiinggitan kasi. Ang hirap din minsan ng masyadong mabait.

9. Doble-Kara: Eto yung matino or mataray pag normal, pero pag nakainom eh bigla na lang sasayaw sa ibabaw ng mesa, or iiyak ng walang malinaw na dahilan, or magiging robot na hindi na alam ang nangyayari, gumagalaw lang pero di nagrerespond sa kapwa, meron ding biglang nang aaway pa. Nakakatakot sila painumin kasi nakakahiya sila kasama pag nalasing.

10. Ms. Know-it-All: Gusto nilang i-impress ang lahat ng tao- especially ang mga kalalakihan, thinking na ma-g-getsung nila ito. They think na mas matalino sila sa guy at kaya nila itong paikutin. Pero wag ka. A good guy can recognize a smart girl. Boys, ingat sa mga tulad nila dahil yung pagka-Know-it-all ay pwedeng mauwi sa paninira sa ibang tao at mga buhol-buhol na kasinungalingan.

11. Problematic: Sila yung mga girls na kala mo kailangan lagi ng karamay o mag-aalaga sa kanila. Pa-emo minsan.. Hanap lagi yung instant Knight-in-Shining-Armour. Dapat mag-ingat ang mga girls na ganito dahil pag problemado sila, mas madaling nakaka-score ang mga kalalakihan lalo na yung magagaling mambola.

12. Babaeng-Bakla: Isa sa pinakagusto kong personality ng babae. Tipong laughtrip lagi pag kasama mo.. Hindi maarte, bulgar kung bulgar magsalita pero nasa timing. Punong puno ng humor. At minsan kung pikon ka maiinis ka sa pang-ookray niya pero ok lang yun lambing lang niya iyon.

13. Silent but deadly: Maria Clara ang datingan, Di sila masyadong palakibo, or masalita. Kung magsasalita man eh parang sila lang nakakarinig sa sinasabi nila. Pero wag matahin… Nasa loob ang kulo nila. Talagang mabibigla ka sa matutuklasan mong ibang side ng girl na ito….

14. Camwhore: Wala naman kinalaman to about sa pagkarir, share ko lang.. Sila yung kahit saan mapunta eh magpipicture ng sarili niya maya’t maya. Kahit di na sa kanya yung celfone puro mukha na nia ang laman. Iba-ibang anggulo pa pero magulo naman karamihan ng kuha. Pipiliting iphotoshop pero lalo lang sumasama. Tapos yung karamihang kuha naman eh nakaside lang yung mukha. Nakakapeke kasi ang ganung posing, nakakapagpaganda. Tapos di pa makukuntento may mga kuha ding nasa taas yung cam and nakaside pa din. Kasi nakakapayat yun, diba? Uuuyyy gagawin na nila yan lagi hehehe.. Daming picture sa fs, fb or multiply na puro mukha lang naman… na naka-side.

15. Flexible: Eto yung girl na akala mo sa unang tingin, di mo mareach mukhang snobbish, and maselan, pero pag nakuha mo ang loob at nakilala mo ng husto eh di pala maarte co-boy din sya na hindi one of d boys. Kahit saan nakakarating mula Rockwell hanggang Divisoria. Walang arte, Kakain kahit saan mapa Fridays or fishbolls sa kalsada. Ang sarap magkaroon ng girlfriend na tulad nila.

16. Flirt: In tagalog, Malandi, Syota ng bayan…. game! Kadalasang sila yung mga liberated, bombshell na talagang pansinin manamit, magsalita, at kumilos. Madaling pumatol lalo na kung gwapo or mayaman.

Source: W a G a S

About Men and Women

Here is all you have to know about men and women:

Women are crazy. Men are stupid.

"And the main reason why women are crazy is that men are stupid."

-George Carlin

Facts for Guys and Girls

Something to ponder for both genders :)

Photo from here

Katotohanan at Hindi Lokohan :)

1. "Ang mag-assume, TALO (kahit 2% pa yan)."

2. "Kung ayaw may DAHILAN, kung gusto may PARAAN."

3. "HuWag masyado magpadala sa text."

4. "BACK OFF (as in back off) sa mga IN A RELATIONSHIP, kahit saan anggulo mo tingnan, ikaw pa rin ang mali."

5. "Never borrow someone else's man/girl. If he/she cheated with you, he'll/she'll cheat on you."

6. "Hayaan mo siyang gawin yung gusto niyang gawin. Buhay niya yun, hindi mo maco-control. As long as alam niya yung limitations niya."

7. "Take it slow. Steady lang."

8. "Maniwala sa IT'S COMPLICATED na status. Hindi lang chenes yan."

9. "Learn to LET GO kung alam mong wala na talaga."

10. "Keep your DIGNITY."

11. "If a man/woman wants you, nothing can keep him/her away. If he/she doesn't want you, nothing can make him/her stay."

12. "Huwag magselos sa siblings and relatives ng boyfriend/girlfirend mo."

13. "Ang QT (quality time), at least 5 hours lang per week."

14. "Don't revolve your life around him/her. Learn to be independent."

15. "Hindi dahilan ang TIME."

16. "Kung ayaw sa iyo ng kapatid, hayaan mo siya. Wala siyang magagawa kung mahal ka talaga niya."

17. "Huwag magpakilala sa parents agad. It can affect your relationship."

18. "Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Kadalasan tama ito mga girls."

19. "Be nice to your EX. Wag maging BITTER."

20. "If a relationship ends because the man/woman was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. At some case this is applicable."

21. "Huwag magpadala sa SITUATION. Baka overwhelmed ka lang."

22. "Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his/her behavior. Paminsan-minsan take off your helmet."

23. "When you meet anyone, remember it's a holy encounter. As you treat them you will treat yourself. As you think of them, you think of yourself. Never forget this, for in them you will find yourself or lose yourself."

24. "Hindi balakid kung magkaiba ang RELIGION ninyong dalawa."

25. "Kung kayang i-workout, i-WORKOUT!"
Kalokohan ang reason na "IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S ME."

26. "All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street."

27. "Learn to forgive para magkaroon ka ng peace of mind."

28. "Some can forgive but can't forget."

29. "If something bothers you, speak up! Mahirap kapag nagpapakiramdaman lang kayo."

30. "OPEN COMMUNICATION, TRUST AND HONESTY are the most important ingredients in a relationship."

31. "You need time to heal between relationships. there is nothing cute about baggage. deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship pag hindi kasi, it can affect or even ruin your relationship."

32. "Okay lang na magselos, basta yung pakilig lang."

33. "Always have your own set of friends separate from his/her para may iba kang channels that is without him/her."

34. "Make him/her miss you sometimes. When a man/woman always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him/her, he/she takes it for granted."

35. "Always make time for your family and friends."

36. "You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary."

37. "Always make time for yourself."

38. "Wala yun sa tagal ng relationship. nasa pagmamahal."

39. "There's NO SUCH THING as MR. RIGHT or MS. RIGHT. It's how you mold him/her to become rightfully for you."

40. "There's NO SUCH THING as COOL OFF/GRAY AREA. Kung white, white! Kung black, black! Walang GRAY AREA."

41. "Always think a number of times before deciding on to something important."

42."There's a possibility that a person can get attracted to another. It's human nature. It's not wrong. But that is why you're in a commitment, you discipline yourself. One may get attracted to numerous prospects and its ok. As long as, you don't nurse the feeling and do something about it. Borderline between cheating and faithfulness. Recognize reality that you already have the person that can give you more than what you get for the cheap thrill of attraction."

43. "You need to let go of the past to have a future"

44. "Do not take anyone for granted."

45. "If what you see by the eye doesn't please you, then close your eyes and see from the heart. Because the heart can see beauty and love more than the eyes can ever wonder."

46. "If you felt it, then it was true. Getting hurt doesn't always mean you suffered, it also means you loved sincerely. Don't frown because it's over. SMILE BECAUSE IT HAPPENED."

47. "KARMA (whatever you do) will find its way."

48. "Everything will fall into place."

49. "True LOVE waits."

50. "The greatest challenge in your life is to find someone who knows your faults and weaknesses, but still willing to embrace you with so much love without doubt."

This is a repost. This was taken from peng11akkirej.tumblr.com