Alam Mo Ba?

Alam mo ba na ang pinakamahirap na gawin ng isang babae?

Yun ay ang ipagtapat niya sa iyo yung tunay niyang nararamdaman, kasi babae siya. Hindi habang buhay kaya niyang itago yung nararamdaman niya.

Sabihin mo man na malandi siya or liberated dahil siya ang nagtapat sa iyo, hindi niya kasalanan yun. Hindi ka naman niya mamahalin kung hindi mo siya binigyan ng dahilan para mahalin ka niya.
Soource: W a G a S

 

Not Meant to be Together

Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but not meant to be together.

Pansamantalang kaligayahan, pansamantalang pagsasama pero sa huli may isang mang-iiwan. Yung akala mo na makakasama mo forever eh iiwan ka din pala. Yung tipong hindi mo inimagine na hindi kayo magkakahiwalay pero nangyari. Siguro ganon lang talaga ang buhay may mga taong dadaan sa buhay mo, papasayahin ka, gagawin kang special sa buhay niya, ipaparamdam sayo na ikaw lang talaga pero yung ginagawa niya sa iyo hindi rin para pangmatagalan. Ma-iinlove ka sa kaniya, ma-iinlove din siya sa iyo pero hindi talaga kayo para sa isa’t isa, hindi pala talaga kayo yung itinadhana na magkasama.

10 Ways To Identify If You Really Have Moved On

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Nakapag-Move On Ka Na Bang Talaga?

1. Ayaw mong makarinig ng mga songs na familiar sa iyo. In fact, you have stopped listening to FM radio stations kasi love songs make you cry.

2. Pumapayat ka. Wala ka pa ring ganang kumain. Ito usually ang nangyayari kung ang ipinalit sayo eh mas sexy at hindi katulad mong mataba.

3. Tumataba ka. Ito ang opposite ng Symptom #2. You tend to binge-eat to forget your troubled heart. Aside from the three main meals of the day, grabe kang lumamon ng junk food in between meals by the hour, on the hour. Comfort food ito para sa iyo.

4. Nagmi-miss call ka sa ex mo. Naka-move on ka na kamo? Concerned ka lang kamo. Tigilan mo na yang kahunghangan mo ha. Sasampalin na kita.

5. Panay pa rin ang padala mo ng Text messages and/or email messages. Paano ka namang makaka-move niyan? You want to be friendly with your Ex? Niloko ka na’t lahat magpapaka-martir ka pa rin?

6. You constantly check your email or your FaceBook account. Nagbabakasakali ka pa rin na nagpadala ng message ang Ex mo? Sige ka baka yung message nya naniningil ng utang mo sa kanya.

7. Hindi ka na lumalabas ng bahay. Takot ka kasi na makita ang Ex mo together with his present. At takot ka din na baka sa landline siya tumawag sa iyo and you will miss the call. Ilusyunadang gago/gaga ka!

8. Hindi mo pa rin maubos-maisip kung bakit ka iniwan ng Ex mo. Hanggang ngayon hindi mo pa rin matanggap na wala na kayo. Para sa iyo wala kang pagkukulang. Para sa iyo unfair ang Ex mo.

9. May mga oras na depres-depresan ka. Ayaw mo pag nagtatakipsilim na. Ayaw mo ng dilim. Ayaw mo ng umuulan. Takot kang mapag-isa. Bigla ka na lang umiiyak. Para kang baliw. Naku, kulang ka lang ng dasal!

10. Gusto mong mag-hire ng detective to check on your Ex. In fact, gusto mo nga na ikaw na mismo ang mag-eespiya sa Ex mo at sa bago niyang partner. Nagpa-praktis ka tirelessly kung anong sasabihin mo just in case you bump to your Ex. With matching sa harap pa ng mirror yang praktis mo ha. Pati pagtulo ng luha, praktisado!

Isa lang masasabi ko. Huwag mo nang kererin ang confrontation mo with your Ex and ang bago niyang lover. It will just be ugly kasi hindi ka pa nga nagmo-move on. Let time heal the wounds. Accept the fact na wala na talaga kayo. And the fastest way to do this is not to do the above symptoms. Hindi siya worth ng love mo. Ipagdasal mo na lang ang Ex mo. In the meantime, chill ka lang. Tao ka lang at nasasaktan din. Acknowledge the pain and learn to accept your fate. In the end, tatawanan mo lang ang episode na ito sa buhay mo. And, don’t stop loving — darating din ang swerte mo.

Which is Which? Bakit Ka Nasasaktan?

Source: WaGaS

~mahal mo pero hindi mo pinaglaban.

~nag-inarte ka pa kasi kaya ka iniwan.

~nagpapalambing lang, ‘di mo pa pinagbigyan, nauwi tuloy sa tampuhan.

~may pagkakataon kang sabihin pero mas pinili mong sarilihin na lang.

~puro ka ngiti, pero pagtalikod iiyak naman.

~tiwala lang ang hinihingi, ang dami mo pang sinabi.

~pinaglaban ka na nga, nakulangan ka pa.

~tinatanong ka kung mahal mo ba siya tapos itinanggi mo pa.

~hindi ka proud sa kanya pero nung siya naman ang ganoon sa iyo, nagagalit ka.

~ginawa mo na lahat pero hindi pa niya naappreciate.

~sabing friends nga lang kayo, naging sweet lang ng konti, na-fall ka na agad tapos tatawagin mo pang pa-fall.

~masyado kang selosa, yun tuloy nasakal na siya.

~masyado kang naging kampante sa kaibigan o bestfriend mo, indi mo alam may nabubuo na pala sa kanila.

~time lang ang kailangan niya, mas pinili mo pang sumama sa iba.

~hindi mo alam yung priorities mo.

~nagpakatanga ka na nga tapos pinaglaruan ka pa.

~pumayag ka na ngang may kasabay ka sa kanya, ikaw pa yung tinawag na kabit.

~nagplano kayo ng sobra sobra, kaya nung nag-away kayo, byebye na.

~kasi binasa mo ito tapos naalala mo siya, kaya ngayon nagsisisi ka pero meron na siyang iba.

Kaibahan ng TAWA sa NGITI

Ang TAWA:

• Maaring makuha sa kaibigan dahil sa isang biruan.
• Ang tawa madaling makuha kahit saan, manuod ka ng telebisyon, ng isang pelikulang komedya, pwede ka nang tumawa.
• Kahit sino pwede ka patawanin, isang taong nagpapatawa, isang kaibigan na loko-loko pagdating sa pagpapatawa.
• Ang tawa ay madaling makuha sa kaibigan.
• Ang mapatawa ay pwede pang maging insulto sa isang taong tinawanan mo.

Ang NGITI:

• Kapag napangiti ka tagos sa puso ang nararamdaman mo.
• Kapag napangiti ka, mas iba ang mararamdaman kaysa sa napatawa ka.
• Malalim ang pinaghugutan ng ngiti.
• Ramdam mo agad sa puso mo yung ngiti na dulot ng isang bagay.
• Kapag hinalikan ka ba? Tatawa ka?
• Kapag may effort na ginawa ang isang tao sa iyo.

Sa madaling-sabi:

• Iba ang ngiti, dahil alam ng taong makakakita na na appreciate mo ito.
• Parehong masaya magkaroon ng dalawang yan. lahat tayo pinangarap ang maging masaya, sino ba ang ayaw?
• Aang tanging magandang mangyayari sa iyo ay maging masaya at tumawa.

 

Napa-ngiti ka ano? :)
Source: WaGaS

How to Enjoy Being Single

Source: WaGaS

If you're fixated on being part of a couple, here are some reasons to savor your SINGLENESS.

— IGNORE THE NAYSAYERS

In a couple-driven consumer marketing society, you're bound to come across people who wonder why you're single, as if the ultimate goal in life is to pair up with another human being and cling to that ideal as if your life depends on it. They might even imply that something is "wrong" with you if you're single. Brace yourself for that kind of ignorance. Remember that you don't have to defend your right for being single, just like it's rude to attack the validity of someone's relationship. Just say "I prefer being single" and change the subject or mention that statistics show that 1/2 of all people are single.

— FOCUS ON FRIENDSHIP

Being single doesn't have to mean being lonely. When you're single, you have more time to do a variety of things, all of which are opportunities to forge new friendships. Even if you're an introvert, this can be an excellent time to nurture your extroverted side. But social butterflies can grapple with loneliness too. Make it a priority in your life to create meaningful friendships and enrich your existing ones.

¤ Learn How to Talk to Strangers.

¤ Practice communication skills that improve and deepen friendships:

¤ Be Optimistic. Whether you're in a relationship or not, you want to be happy. Research shows that the number one ingredient for happiness, by far, is optimism.

— ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM

Everybody has radical little fantasies and the chances of pairing up with someone who shares such a fantasy with equal fervor is not something to hold your breath for. So what are you waiting for? Find some people who have the same idea, or just go for it alone, and you'll meet like-minded people along the way.

— APPRECIATE THE ABSENCE OF COMPROMISE

Classic relationship advice dictates that compromise, sacrifice are essential to a healthy relationship. Perhaps if you've been in a relationship before, you realize how much stuff you had to give up in order to make that relationship work. Or maybe you forgot about that stuff, because you're focused on the things you miss. Well, this is a good time to shift that focus. If you're a slob, isn't it great to be able to leave your stuff laying around, without anybody minding? If you're a neat freak, isn't it wonderful to be able to organize everything, and find it the way you left it? Isn't it nice to be able to cook and eat and enjoy foods that a partner might be averse to? Isn't it cool to be able to go out spontaneously, without wondering whether your partner can or should be invited? A relationship can add many good things to your life, but it also adds some rigidity, so take the time to appreciate your current flexibility.

— CHERISH THE EXCITEMENT

Relationships tend to come along with planning -- for example, you can't just accept a job across the country without touching base with your significant other. And generally, if you're in it for the long haul, you'll likely talk about what you'll be doing years from now. But when you're single, the future is completely open. Right now you're single, but tomorrow you might meet your soul-mate. Who knows? Fantasize. Be spontaneous. Be bold.

— BEING A MARRIED IS A LIFESTYLE CHOICE AND NOT A REQUIREMENT

Therefore, being single is a "lifestyle choice" and not a "default option." It is possible to CHOOSE to be single. There are advantages to being married just as there are disadvantages to being married, such as loss of personal freedom, having to compromise, etc. Conversely, there are advantages to being single, as well as disadvantages. Whether one is married or single is nothing more than a lifestyle choice.

TIPS

¤ Say yes to every opportunity to learn, grow and meet new people.

¤ Be grateful for what you have. Many people in the world don't have what you have.

¤ Decide for yourself if there are aspects of your life or your personality that you would like to change and do it. You are your best evaluator. You don't need to listen to those people who tell you that you are single because you are too "picky", too fat, or too old to meet someone else.

¤ Ignore the toxic people in your life. It is easy to recognize them. Their negative words of fear and discouragement sap your energy.

Invest in yourself. Save some money and get a professional massage. Get a manicure and pedicure... anything that nurtures your body and lifts your spirit.

¤ Look in your local newspaper for opportunities to join a service club or volunteer with an organization. Look in your church newsletter for church related activities if that makes you happy. Check the continuing education program at your local community college to see if there is a class that you would like to attend.

¤ Be sociable, go out and have fun and meet new people, just because there is no one in your life yet doesn't mean there never will be. Take your time and wait for the right person.

Astig ni Lolo =)

Apo: Lolo, sino po ba ang dapat mas nagmamahal? Babae o Lalaki?

Lolo: Simple lang yan apo, ikaw tatanungin ko, para makalipad ang ibon, anong pakpak ang dapat niyang gamitin? SYEMPRE PAREHO.

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Isang Payo

Kapag nagmahal ka, MAHAL lang, huwag mahal na mahal.
Para kapag nasaktan ka, MASAKIT lang, hindi masakit na masakit.

There is always some

TRUTH behind: "Just Kidding"
KNOWLEDGE behind: "I don't know"
EMOTION behind: "I don't care"
PAIN behind: "I'm okay"

Destiny and Choice

It is not DESTINY that determines LOVE, it is CHOICE. Relationship lasts long not because they’re destined to last long. Relationships last long because two people made a choice, to keep it, to fight for it and to work for it. Other relationships fail not because they’re destined to fail. They failed because one of the two, or both, made the choice - to set each of the other FREE… :)

When Someone's Worth It:

– you are willing to stop flirting with other people to prove it to them.

– you put your status as interested/not looking, even when you’re still single.

– you are willing to stay up even if they want to be on the phone all night.

– you instantly miss them as soon as you guys get off the phone.

– you start to think about the future with them and you just can’t help but smile.

When someone's worth it, don’t let them get away :)

Good Advices for Girls

Source: W a G a S

1. A man won’t let go if he really loves you

- Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship

- There is only one reason why he ended your relationship. He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hang up on your past

- Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn’t guard him enough or you didn’t make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images

- How many times have you met a girl who didn’t have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your “supposedly” perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules

- Set your limits on how far you’d go for a guy. It’s perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it’s worth it. And it’s worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him

- Don’t be scared that he’ll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy

- It's a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it’s the guy who’s calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it’s a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you

- There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don’t lose hope. Don’t settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can.

Also, do not believe him when he says it’s just the way he really is. He’s not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what

- Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can’t get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can’t leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you

- No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it

- Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way

- Do not steal another girl’s man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship

- Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn’t come yet. Do not choose who to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle

- If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love

- Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don’t be afraid to be single

- It’s fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl

- Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years). If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits

- Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn’t give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him

- Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one

- Act like you are the one. Don’t be a nagger. Don’t hinder his gimmicks. Don’t give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don’t be easy. Don’t be like every other girl he had in his life.

A man won’t let go, if he really loves you.

Facts for Guys and Girls

Something to ponder for both genders :)

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Ang Cute Naman... nung tuta^^

Ganito ka ba makipag-usap sa iyong "Special Someone" sa cellphone?

 

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Nakakarelate ka ba? Kung ganoon, isa ka na nga sa mga ganyan na makipag-usap sa kanilang "Special Someone". Congratuations! :)

Do we really need a reason to fall for someone?

I'd always love to mention your name, but when I see you, when you're near me and whenever you're talking in front of me, my mind flies, I feel so ashamed. I can't explain those feelings. All I know is that when you are there, I always tend to melt ♥

Superhero

Hindi pala ako pwedeng maging superhero.

Bukod kasi sa ikaw ang kahinaan ko, hindi pa ako makakalipad kasi parati akong NAHUHULOG sa iyo.
- Photo from magTXT.com FB fanpage, quote from  W a G a S FB fanpage

Playground Slides :)

The reason why PLAYGROUND SLIDES are made is for us to EXPERIENCE the joy of FALLING even if there’s no one to CATCH us.

The "Crush"

Yung feeling na inaasar ka nila sa crush mo tapos kunwari ayaw mo pero sa loob ganito ka na:

Gaano Katindi Ang Love? ♥

Isipin mo… nagagawa nitong mapaghintay ang mainiping tao, masaktan ang manhid, maging sweet ang masungit, mapatawa ang isang malungkutin at nagagawa nitong tanga ang isang matalinong tao.

So true XD

Paano ba Talaga Nadedevelop ang Feelings ng Isang Tao?

1. Kapag inaasar ka ng isang tao.
- Madalas itong mangyari di ba? Yung once na inaasar ka ng isang tao, pag hndi siya ngparamdam sa iyo, parang hindi na buo yung araw mo. HINAHANAP-HANAP mo ung pang-aasar niya sayo pero hindi mo namamalayan, SIYA NA PALA ANG HINAHANAP MO ♥

2. Kapag kausap mo palagi ang isang tao.
- Yung tipong nasanay ka na lagi mo siyang kausap, kakwentuhan. Hindi lilipas ang isang buong araw na hindi kayo nagkakausap. Once na hindi mo siya nakausap, parang may KULANG, yung tipong kahit sa phone lang kailangan magkausap kayo para masabi mong buo yung araw mo ♥

3. Kapag pareho kayo ng gusto/hilig.
- Yung parang MUTUAL lahat ng gusto niyo, yung interest ninyo sa mga bagay-bagay. At least doon pa lang, MUTUAL na kayo di ba?

4. Kapag napapatawa ka niya.
- Malaking bagay na napapatawa ka ng isang tao. Yung parang kapag may problema ka, nandian siya palagi para pasayahin ka. Yung feeling na nakakagaan ng pakiramdam kapag nakikita mong nag-eeffort siya mapangiti ka lang niya ♥

5. Biruan/Tuksuhan.
- Eh dito naman lahat nag-uumpisa yan eh. Yung tipong "joke" lang daw nung una, tapos sineseryoso niyo na pala pareho ♥
- from W a G a S Facebook Fan Page.